Saturday, 12 January 2019

Never have I encountered such being in my entire life.
Here's what to know:

PREFACE
In regard to an incident happened in late November 2018, where a promoter was verbally and sexually harassed by a triggered man,
I decided to voice my opinion through video, and uploaded it on my channel.
On the third or fourth day when the incident had finally come to an end,
I created a follow-up video and announced that I would disable the comment function on the opinion video. As everyone wishes to put an end to it, I must not allow further discussion on that video. Since it was my first time using the disable comment function, I found out that not only users would not be able to comment, but also read. LOL.
I thought everyone could read, just not comment.
Anyway, the incident has become a past. Everyone moves on.


Here's the opinion video, solely my opinion.


Here's the follow-up video, which intents to end.



PROLOGUE
As things cooled down, people get on with their lives and weeks passed by,
out of the blue, a user popped out and left a comment. I'll address the user as "it".



My response is exactly like what I wrote.
I don't see any other users left any comment relating to attention, and thought maybe it commented without watching the opinion video. 



Here, I really don't see why it commented twice, with a few hours apart, when I ignored it. Instead of me fishing for its attention which I don't feel the need to, it is clear to me that it was the one fishing for my reply. I don't see the need to even leave any comment related to the incident since everyone wishes to end it, hence I asked if it was updated with the news because it appeared to me that it was not.



Apparently, 
asking a general question = a bait for fishing for attention.
It made me laughed, but it was somewhat triggered.



First, I was like whoahhh what's with the idiot?
Summarising its response, it said that
  1. I said that the promoter does not want to reveal herself or seek any further attention;
  2. I mentioned in the video/description that the promoter does not want to elaborate more and let it go in the video, so people would stop finding her name;
  3. I stupidly announce her name to everyone;
  4. It will help share my videos.



Pictured above is my reply. I thanked it for the "idiot" compliment. Well, the facts that it
  1. Suddenly bringing the issue up again when no one talked about it;
  2. Ignored the fact all parties do not wish to expand the case, so just close the case;
  3. Double commented when I did not reply but claimed that I was "waiting and fishing" for attention;
  4. Wrote the promoter's name;
  5. Shared the video; and
  6. Left lengthy reply to a row of same emojis.

said a lot about its mentality and personality.
See how #5 completely ignores #1 and #2
If they do not tell that it was the one attempting to "fish for attention", then I don't know what they tell.

Since it said that I mentioned in the video the statement "so that people would stop finding her name", I actually do not recall saying that and I went to listen and opened the subtitle to read.
Nope, I don't hear myself saying that in my video.

Accusation as its best.



See how it claimed that it has shared my video with a particular race's communities and forums?

I thought it was very clear that all parties want to put an end.

It said "Enjoy" for "receiving quite a response," but how to enjoy without the links? Seems like it is not smart after all. 
The move of raising sensitive issue is already a backward move, and I wished it enjoyed getting the notifications it wanted.

That was the last reply since I have no interest in interacting with it.



It continued to comment.
This time, bringing up an old story again, just like what it was doing all the time - bringing up old incident when no one talked about it.
Not only that, it even left a comment on an old video.



Well, there are two types of users.
By the way, I didn't know that makeup functions as a turn on tool.



Its attention shifted to my other subscriber, who is my student. Clearly underage.
In the picture above, it said that it does not "think anyone is interested in" my student "or to engage" with my student "long enough", and "also not interested with" my student.

Then again, it was the one engaging with my student
Isn't it ironic?


This was among my last comment screenshots, but the comments went on.
Here are the Gmail screenshots from my student.



I don't think any grown ups would see this as a safe zone, especially with a user who harasses underage child. 



I won't deny that my student did use foul language and it is wrong.



Here, it said that my student commented multiple times when he could just leave all thoughts in one comment.
I find this self-contradicting because it also did the same thing
when I did not reply.

The sexual and verbal harassment continued
I regretted not reporting to the police for harming an underage child.



Suddenly, on the 20th December, it commented and mentioned me, asking me if I wanted to make an explanation video for another incident.

It was lovely to think of me, but what was there to explain?
As of that time, I have no idea what the its motive was. 


This was its reply.




THE DISAPPEARANCE

On the 22nd December, 
my student reported to me that it has deleted its comments.
It gave me a sigh of relief to see my channel clean again.
The trash took itself out, of course it made me happy.



Its comment notifications are still there.




DENOUEMENT 

That was a great way to end 2018 and to begin 2019
But it came back
and commented on my Q&A video, which was latest video back then.



Honestly, really thankful that it noticed the pimple which was almost never in the frame of the video. What keen eyes it has, eh?
Anyway, yeah, it paraphrased my words, summarised part of my video and deserved a cookie about the channel is for fun
Very attentive and indeed paid attention this time. 👍


It harassed my student again.
It also said that I would be surprised to find out who it is
so I was really interested to know who it is.
I sure would like to know who is the one behind such a name and leaving remarks and harassment everywhere but evaded the questions of revealing itself every time when my student asked.



As I have already expected, 
it would surely give excuse and would never reveal itself. 
It did expose itself as a parasite on my channel, though.
I lost interest.



A question answered by the one who asked, 
much akin to the trash took itself out situation.
And, oh god.
It was still touching about the past incident and still throwing accusations, assuming that it is righteous.



What lengthy comment to my last reply. It was funny to me, 
and glad that it finally left my student alone.




EPILOGUE

Perhaps this is the kind of attention it wanted, 
so it is featured on my blog now. Hope that it is happy~





Here are some reminders for everyone reading this~

  • You may use the report or flag button as long as it works. However, if you feel that your safety, or the safety of  anyone you know is in a threatening situation, please lodge a report to the nearest authority. No one wants to see anyone falls victim to any form of harassment.
  • The Freedom of Speech  does not include hate speeches. Spread good vibes, speak good words. There are methods to channel negativity away that don't include giving negative remarks to others. Look them up if you need to, and remember to help channel away from others.
  • Instead of being a warrior or some defender behind the keyboard using an incognito pseudonym, man up and confront directly like a grown up. Misunderstandings often happen due to lack of communication. Thus, proper and/or direct communication is essential.
  • If you do not favour what you see or watch on the Internet, you can always ignore it. However, if it posts threat to others, then report it.
  • Same old words: if your actions do more harm than good, don't do it.
  • Think before you speak, or act. In order to avoid being a hypocrite and not noticing that you are contradicting yourself, please analyse the situation and consider all possible existing factors.
  • In the cases of self-contradicting person, donate a mirror to the said person.




-vivian-




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